Rewriting Your Money Story: How to Heal, Reframe, and Finally Feel Calm About Money

After taking a short hiatus, I returned to my podcast this season with a topic that remains as relevant as ever — money.
Not just how we make it or manage it, but how we feel about it.

Because here’s the truth: Money isn’t real in the way we think it is. It’s energy, an idea — a digital system we’ve all agreed to use. Yet it shapes so much of our self-worth, our choices, our stress levels, and even our identities.

So how do we start to heal our relationship with something that feels so necessary and yet so emotionally charged?

Step 2: Create a New Money Mindset

Now, imagine someone who has no money blocks. They feel calm, confident, and neutral about money — it just flows.

Write three new sentences from that perspective. For example:

  • “Money supports me in doing what I love.”

  • “There’s always more than enough.”

  • “I manage money with ease and clarity.”

Read those sentences and notice what feeling they create in your body — maybe calm, lightness, or confidence. That feeling is your new focus.

If something feels like it needs healing, allow yourself to feel the emotions attached to it

Step 1: Look Back at Your Money Stories

Your current financial results are rooted in your past beliefs. Take a few minutes to write down three sentences that describe your past experiences with money.

  • Maybe it’s something you learned from family (“We never had enough.”)

  • Something you’ve told yourself (“I’m not good with money.”)

  • Or a pattern you’ve seen play out (“I make it and lose it just as fast.”)

Once you’ve written them down, label each one:

  • Fact (something objectively true)

  • Thought (a belief you can question)

  • Story (a narrative that might need healing)

Step 4: Let Growth Be a Practice

Healing your money relationship isn’t a one-time mindset shift. It’s an ongoing practice of curiosity, compassion, and consistency. There’s no magic pill for this (sorry!). But there is transformation — if you’re willing to look honestly at your patterns and take aligned action.

And even if you don’t make more money right away, you’ll gain something more valuable: peace of mind.

Step 3: Connect Calm to Action

Here’s the key: mindset without action is just theory. Once you’ve identified your calm (or whatever emotion feels expansive), take one small, practical action from that emotional state.

For example:

  • If your old story was “I’m bad with money,” your new action might be enrolling in a short financial literacy course.

  • If your story was “I overspend when I’m stressed,” your action could be setting a weekly

  • budget meeting with yourself — calmly, without judgment.

Remember: calm creates clarity, and clarity creates value — the kind that attracts abundance naturally.

Ready to Heal Your Money Blocks?

If this resonated with you — if you’re ready to stop stressing about money and start creating a calm, confident relationship with it — I’d love to help you get there.

Book a free clarity call with me today, and let’s uncover what’s really holding you back from abundance.

Together, we’ll rewrite your money story — one aligned action at a time.

Book your call here → http://practica.consulting/contact

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